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seeing it all as part of the warp and woof of the universe。
Always remember that the experience of peace； love； and serenity are created
by the way in which you operate your bioputer。 The world you perceive
is based on the automatic programming below conscious levels that selects
everything that is introduced into your consciousness。 As you grow into
higher consciousness； your perceptions of what is here and now in your life
will be introduced into your consciousness without triggering emotions that
lead your rational mind to churn away with security； sensation； and power
stuff。 When a panoramic perception of the here and now is introduced into
your consciousness within a framework of openness and love； you live in a
deep； calm place within your heart。 You will perceive the drama going on
outside of you。 You will effectively do what you need to do。 and you will
enjoy as drama all of the “ugly” things and the “beautiful” things that are
being acted out on the stage that passes before your eyes each day。 The joy
and ecstasy of life is yours as you bee one with the Law of Higher
Consciousness Love everyone unconditionally including yourself。
Chapter 21
How To Increase Your Enjoyment of Sex
Sex； as well as the rest of the drama in your life； may be experienced at any
level of consciousness。 It may be done on the security level （as in the case of
a turned…off wife who lets it happen to keep her marriage together）； or the
sensation level （as with a playboy）； or on the power level （such as a man who
challenges himself to make it with a difficult…to…get partner）。 Sex is
experienced on the love level of consciousness （when you use the experience
to flow more lovingly and acceptingly）； or on the Cornucopia level （when one
finds in the experience of sex a deeper awareness of the way in which life
offers us everything we need）。 On the sixth level of consciousness one
watches the drama of the physical union from a deep calm place within one’s
heart。 On the seventh level of consciousness； one bees the sexual
experience。 It is not perceived as something that is happening to oneself。
Instead； one feels an identity with everything and everyone。 On this level；
you would not experience sex as a happening you are the happening。 。 。 。
Unless you are well on your way on the journey to higher consciousness； you
are probably now experiencing sex largely on the second level of
consciousness。 You engage in sex with your partner for your mutual
enjoyment。 Your consciousness during sex is concerned with the sensations
that you have during the time you are making love and especially during the
moments of orgasm。 The consciousness of your partner similarly will be
focused on the delightful sensations。 Although there is cooperation and
agreement between you regarding what is happening； each of you is using the
other as an object with which to gratify a desire for sexual feelings。 There is
thus a subject…object separateness that deprives you of the more beautiful
feelings that await you when sex is experienced from higher levels of
consciousness。
Sex at the second level of consciousness leaves you vulnerable in many ways。
You may pare tonight’s experience with the high feelings of a previous
night； and this parison may lead you to feel that what happened tonight
was not quite “enough。” You are vulnerable to disappointment if your partner
is tired or for some reason is not interested。 If the experience is particularly
great； your consciousness will begin to wonder how soon you can repeat it
or whether you can repeat it at all。
This grasping； manipulative focus of consciousness keeps you from being
pletely satisfied here and now。 It keeps you on a roller…coaster of
pleasure and disappointment。 Our habit of anticipating the future rather than
letting ourselves pletely experience the here…and…now enjoyment of life
can enormously detract from the experience of sex。 For example； a man may
spend an evening dining and talking with a woman with a large proportion of
his consciousness involved in his anticipation of going to bed with her later
that night。 He is bodily with her； but a large part of his consciousness is
drained away by his preoccupation with the future。 If the person he is with is
perceptive （and not caught in the same game）； she will be aware that there is
something lacking in the vividness and oneness of their here…and…now
interactions。
Let us suppose his plan works out； and they are now in bed kissing each
other。 The man’s consciousness （if he has not learned how to be in the here
and now） will not be totally enjoying the experience of kissing。 He will be
anticipating the next step when perhaps his hands will be caressing here
breasts。 Once he is caressing her breasts； he is very likely to miss the
“enoughness” and delightfulness of that experience。 He will be anticipating
how nice it will be when his hands begin to explore yet more intimate regions
that await him below her hips。 And then when he is next touching and feeling
her labial and vaginal areas； he will still not be here now。 He will still be
unable to savor and pletely appreciate the nowness of the experience。
His consciousness will then leap forward to anticipate how nice it will be
when his penis is inside of her。 And even after that happens； he may still not
be in the here and now！ He will be anticipating the moments of climax。 It is
only when he finally reaches orgasm that he will be pletely here now。 For
the moments of orgasm are so consciousness…dominating that he will probably
not be able to place his consciousness anywhere else。 It is one of the few
times in his life when he can experience being pletely in the here and
now！
When your consciousness is dominated by your desire for the intense
sensations of sex； you will be depriving yourself of a large part of the beauty
and loveliness that will be yours when you can enjoy sex at the Fourth Center
of Consciousness。 When your consciousness is operating at the Fourth Level；
you will begin to enjoy every second as a fulfilling whole in itself。 Whatever
happens as the flow of love unfolds is enough。 Your mind is not concerned
with what w