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that you are futilely directing your energies in the useless attempt to use
conniving and emotional pressure to change the words and actions of people
around you。 And so； unlike the rat who adapts to the fact that the cheese is
no longer located in the third tunnel； you keep yourself trapped by trying to
manipulate and change the people and things in your life。 The problems you
had at age two are gone yet you are unconsciously playing out the methods
you used back then。 These obsolete solutions deprive you of the opportunity
to fully experience and enjoy your life。
When you apply a heavy enough power trip； you may make certain changes
in the life energies around you。 But if you were conscious of the enormous
separation and alienation that your criticism and manipulation creates with the
people around you； you would realize that you cannot afford the price in lost
happiness that you pay for the precious few changes you may force on the
surface。 The only changes that you can make； without paying a large penalty；
are those changes that gently and easily happen when you make a loving
munication。 When that won’t do it； you should work on releasing
yourself from your inner addictions and emotion…backed demands that are
controlling or dominating your consciousness。
How do you stop the downward spiraling of the Wheel of Unhappiness and
start converting it into an upward Spiral of Happiness？ You need to redirect
your energy from trying to change the outer life energies； to changing your
inner programming （see Diagram 2）。 There are no methods available that will
enable you to successfully change all of the outer life energies around you to
fit your inner emotional programming。 You could have the power of a king；
the prestige of a movie star； or the knowledge of a Ph。D。； but the condition of
your life would still remain the same you win some and you lose some。 By
using the Five Methods of Living Love； you have the capacity to change your
own inner programming。 There is a huge supply of cheese waiting for you；
but you can only get to it by working on your own inner programming so that；
here and now； you can emotionally accept the people and situations in your
life。
When you work on your inner adaptation； by reprogramming the emotionbacked
demands you place on people and situations in your life； you will find
that the life situations and energies that used to create unhappiness will be
neutral or positive in their effect on your happiness。 Your energy；
perceptiveness； and ability to love unconditionally will make you invulnerable
to suffering。 And so the third phase of Diagram 2 shows that you begin to
feed back a loving acceptance of the people and situations around you。
Just as your criticism strongly affects the life energies around you； your
positive feedback can begin to powerfully affect the life energies around you。
The more you lovingly accept people in your life； without conditions； the
more you free them to enjoy being around you。 Their egos and rational minds
do not have to stay in a paranoid or defensive place； and when they are with
you they can begin to experience themselves free of security； sensation； and
power addictions that you formerly reflected or set off in them。 This frees
their energy to experience themselves and you without a “tunnel vision”
effect。 They begin to feel free and liberated around you。 They develop a
deep trust that you will remain tuned…in； centered； and loving no matter what
they do。 They can just relax and enjoy； and begin to groove in a loving；
mutually supportive space with you。
Instead of negatively affecting the life energies around you； so as to put
people even more out of phase with your programming （as in Diagram 1）；
people may now begin to change their feelings in ways that begin to fit your
Preferential Programming。 And if they don’t change； it doesn’t matter
because it was only a “preference” anyway。 Since you are largely free from
Addictive Programming； they don’t have to walk around like they’re tiptoeing
on eggs all the time。 They can just relax and flow with their own inner
vibrations and energies for they know that you won’t make yourself upset；
regardless of what they may do or say。 As they begin to love you in a deeper
and deeper way； their egos may begin directing their energy to do the things
that you prefer。 And this can stimulate joyous feelings that create the
experience of increasing happiness in your life。
Your upleveling of addictions to preferences enables you to love more and
more （see Third Phase of Diagram 2）； and the Wheel of Happiness begins to
turn。 For your love modifies the life energies of people and frees them to love
you and serve you； which feeds back into your Preferential Programming so
that even more enjoyment and happiness are created。 Then your feelings of
love multiply。 since your loving feedback to the life energies around you is
further intensified； the Wheel of Happiness turns and turns； and turns in an
upward spiral thus creating loving； peaceful feelings that spring from a
deep harmony with the here and now of your life。
Just as you created the experience of unhappiness in your life by your
continual negative feedback into the life energies around you； you have now；
in a god…like manner； created the experience of happiness in your life。 You
have created a “miracle” you are no longer an “effect” of the world around
you you have bee a “cause” a creative source。 Your higher
consciousness has created the beautiful world you live in。
Now you know why your life is naturally good； how your life really wants to
work； and how your programming has been the only roadblock to your
experiencing continuous happiness in life。 You know that you have the
capacity to create the experience of happiness or the experience of
unhappiness in your life。 It all depends on the quality and quantity of critical；
rejecting energy or accepting； loving energy that you feed back into the
people and situations around you。 You see clearly how you have kept your
life from working。
You can now begin to demonstrate the miracle of creating happiness in your
life。 And by doing this；