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ys of answering all the problems life throws at you。
24。 Create your relationship。
〃We are each angels with only one wing； so we can only fly and embarrass each other。〃 We can't create our truest selves without creating relationships in the process。 Relationships are everywhere。 In relationship； most of think with our emotions； not our minds。 Don't think with your feelings though。 Think with your mind and you'll be able to create the relationships you want in your life。 They just don't 〃happen〃 to you。
25。 Be where you are。
Most of us don't ever focus。 We're constantly feel this type of psychic chaos because we're always thinking about too many things at once。 Focus on what you want and it will e to you life。 Focus on being a happy and motivated person and that's who you will be。 FOCUS。
26。 Act like a hero。
We need heroes in our lives。 They are not a sign of weakness； they are a source of strength。 〃Without heroes； we are just plain people and we don't know how far we can go。〃 Heroes show us what is possible for a human being is able to acplish； therefore are very useful for anyone interested in self motivation。 You don't have to have just one hero； choose a number for them。 Put their pictures up。 Bee an expert in their lives。 Collect books about them。 Let your heroes lives inspire you。 They're only people like we are。 What distinguish them from us is their great level of self motivation。 To passively adore them is an insult to our potential。 Instead of looking up to our heroes； it's much more beneficial to look into them。
27。 Accept your will power。 *
Lot of people say they don't have will power。 But if you think you don't have will power； your under minding your own success。 Everyone has will power。 To be listening to this program you got to have will power。 The first step in developing your will power is to attempt it's existence。 The 2nd step is to know that your will power is like a muscle in your arm is yours to develop。 Your in charge of making it strong or let it bee weak。 Will power is not strengthened by random external circumstances。 Will power is an inside game。 Make a promise to yourself to be clear and truthful about your own will power。 It's always there。
28。 Say 〃No〃 to yourself。 ****
A lot of people are afraid of the word 〃discipline〃 but the root of the word 〃discipline〃 is the word 〃disciple。〃 When your self disciplined； you simply decided in the matter of the word to bee your own 〃disciple。〃 Once you make that decision； your life's adventures bees more interesting。 You see yourself as a different person。 You start to gain your own SELF RESPECT。 〃Self respect is the fruit of discipline。 The sense of dignity growths with the ability to say 'no' to oneself。〃 … Abraham Hassel。 〃When we say no to temptation； the power of that 'temptation' passes into our will power。〃 … Emerson。 We should do 2 things everyday that we don't want to do。 By doing this； we bee more aware of our will power。
29。 Make new word connections。
If you associate the word 〃will power〃 as harsh punishment you'll weaken your resolve to build it。 To increase your resolve； you need to think about 〃new word connections。〃 i。e。 weight lifters think failure as success。 Be more aware of the language you use and guide that language to more personal power。
30。 Deprogram yourself。
If you watch/listen to news programs on a regular basis； you belong to a very hypnotic cult。 You need to be de programmed。 Start be altering how you listen to the media。 Program out all the negative and cynical thoughts that you allow to flow into your mind unchecked when you hear the news。 Once you bee better at factoring out all the negative media； make your own news。 Be your own breaking story。
31。 Open the present。 ****
Practice being awake in the present moment。 Make the most awareness of this moment。 Don't live the past unless you like guilt。 Don't live in the future unless you like fear。 Just stay focused on today。 Watch what happens to your motivation。
32。 Serve and grow rich。
You can motivate yourself by increasing the flow of money into your life。 Most people are even embarrassed to think this way。 They don't want to think and grow rich because they'll be though as being greedy。 They believe to make money； you have to take it away from someone else。 Or they don't want to e across as being obsessed with money。 You know who are the people that are really obsessed with money？ People who think they don't have enough。 They obsess of money all day long。 It's in their family discussions； it's in their minds at night； it bees a destructive part of their relationships during the day。 〃Our first duty in life is not to be poor〃 … George Bernard Shaw。 The road to not being poor always travels through your professional relationships。 The more serve those relationships； the more productive you'll bee and the more money you'll make。 Allow yourself to link your financial well being with your increase passion for others。 If I live in poverty； how much love and attention can I give my children or to my fellow humans。 How much help can I give to others if I'm always worrying about being in debt。
33。 Imitate 'Columbo'
In your professional life； always be CURIOUS。 When you meet with someone think of yourself as a detective。 Ask questions。 By asking questions in your relationships； your already creating the relationship。 Your already self motivated。 Your not waiting for the other person to make it happen。
34。 Give away some power。 ****
Motivate yourself by giving someone else the ideas for self motivation。 You can have any experience you want in life； simply by giving away that experience to someone else。 It's called 〃Instant Karma。〃 If you want to be motivated； shift your inspiration to someone else。 Point out their strengths。 Offer encouragement and support。 Watch what it does for you。
35。 Talk to yourself。 * ****
Don't be nervous talking to yourself。 We associate it with 'insanity'。 But Plato said； 〃Thinking was the soul talking to itself。〃 There is no one better to talk to then yourself when you really want to get things worked out。 No other person has enough information about your problems。 No one knows your skills